When your partner is curious about something and you are being evasive, that’s going to set up suspicions and doubts. It implies you may be hiding something that you’ve done wrong.
Or, you might just like to keep some secrets or, you don’t want to open up about something which is possibly quite irrelevant or not related to your partner and relationship, but that is going to create doubts as well.
If your partner trusts you and you refuse to answer their questions, the only thing they can do is to shut down their curiosity and not have any desire to know what you’re hiding.
The problem is that when we shut down our curiosity for one thing, it shuts down our interest in many things, including love and passion. Curiosity is an emotion, and if you’re shutting down one emotion, you will shut down many emotions.
If you hide things or refuse to answer questions from your partner, and they persist to ask, then you are actually setting up the destruction of their love and interest and passion in you.
Accept responsibility and be aware that curiosity killed the cat but it also kills the love If that curiosity is rejected and not fulfilled.
Alternatively, curiosity shows interest, and the more you feed it, the stronger it gets.
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