A successful relationship in your personal or business life centres around the elimination of conflicts, anger, stress, arguments and frustration.
All those emotions are actually like spokes connected to one central point and so working on the main core, fixes all of them. They make you feel that you are not understood and that the other person is closed minded. But you also have to accept your own closed mind in order to open theirs.
The problem is when we think we understand something, our mind automatically and instantly closes and we will never understand or learn anything new.
For example, everybody seems to be frustrated with a common issue of people who do not answer a question fully or do not read the entire email or whole paragraph. This is an incredibly common situation.
If you can see that other people aren’t reading your messages or listening to what you say, it proves they are only reading or listening to the first part and shutting down at that point.
Your path to happiness begins with you observing yourself doing this very same thing.
The principle is very simple. The human mind is a machine that functions according to the desires of the ego.
Our ego needs to be liked because companionship is one of our strongest needs.
And so the ego lives in perpetual fear of being disliked by being considered stupid or incompetent. This makes it try to show that it always understands everything.
Another problem is that we cannot communicate emotions in words alone. When a person is listening to the words and thinking they understand what the other person is saying merely at the surface level of simple vocabulary, they do not open to hear the feeling and emotion behind those words. Thus, they do not understand what the other person is really saying.
Our programs are very simple and teach you two basic things. The first is how to never get insulted or upset. We do not have to be so sensitive to what anybody says about us.
The second is to be able to hear, and not just listen, but really hear and understand what anyone is telling you, even if they cannot express themselves adequately with words.
It only takes one person to be able to fully understand, then you are able to lead all situations to a loving end.